8 Sex Tips Every Couple Needs to Know

8 Sex Tips Every Couple Needs to Know

Sex Tip 1: Do That Thing He's Always Begging You to Do
Most men are pretty vocal about their sexual fantasies. It's the male equivalent of our nagging them to pick up their socks. Does your guy really, really want you to dance for him? Try anal sex? Dress up like a French maid, perhaps? Since you're the only woman he's allowed to have sex with and all, it's worth a try!

Sex Tip 2: Role-Play the Opposite of Your Personalities
Is your guy a go-getter who handles everything inyour relationship? Tie him to the bedpost. Is he on the shy side and lets you call all the shots? Hand him some bondage tape and tell him to take over. Most people like to play a role in bed that's notwhat they play in real life.

Sex Tip 3: Try Any Position You've Never Done Before
Doing new things together is a bonding experience, and let's be honest—it's probably been a while since either of you did something new in bed. Just throw out a sex position, or ask him if there's one he's never tried, and go for it. Best case? Someone loves it. Worst case? You have a good laugh.

Sex Tip 4: Leave Your Underwear at Home on Date Night
OK, it's a little cheesy. But it'll make your typical routine of sharing the burrata appetizer at your neighborhood Italian restaurant a little more fun. As you're leaving home, as you're walking in, or as you're sitting down, just let him know. And wear a body-con dress and heels so he can fantasize about the easy access.

Sex Tip 5: Have Sex When You Don't Really Feel Like It
Let me be clear: Never do anything you really don't want to do. However, relationships are about compromise, so if you're turning him down more than you're turning him on, you might consider some pro bono (he-he!) sex once in a while. It will go a long way in your relationship, because once a guy feels neglected or rejected, he might stop trying to do all those things you like too.

Sex Tip 6: Treat Him Like a Sex Object Sometimes
What kind of sex do people have during affairs? The kind of sex where clothes get ripped and lamps get broken. A lot of people crave that kind of passion, which we all know is hard to maintain when you've slept together literally hundreds of times. So consider it an investment in your monogamy and treat him like the jerky-but-so-hot football player you wanted just one night with in college and take the guy. He'll like it, promise.

Sex Tip 7: Don't Forget About Oral
Every woman knows that men love oral sex, and every man knows that at some point in a long-term relationship, he'll probably stop getting it. In his ideal world, you'll keep doing it because you wantto, so don't make it seem like a chore (even if you kind of feel like is). P.S. This rule works both ways.

Sex Tip 8: Don't Wear Frumpy Outfits to Bed Every Night
To a lot of men, the moment you wear sweatpants to bed is the exact moment when the romance officially dies. This is hard, because you want to wear those comfy sweats as much as he wants to stop doing sit-ups every day. But consider an upgrade to lingerie (or at least retire the baggy T-shirt) every once in a while and watch the magic happen. Bonus: Not only will he love it if you're a little sexier when you hit the sheets, you might find it puts you in the mood too.
Source: glamour.com